These Are The 50 Little Things That Secretly Make You Unhappy 😥😥
Every now and then, you may ask,
Why am I so unhappy?
Unhappiness comes in many shades of gray. Sometimes people just lack joy.
Is their emotional darkness their own choice? Or are life circumstances beyond their control?
While depression, and other psychological diseases, are certainly clinical illnesses and should not be minimized, some factors contribute to feeling down that you can influence.
Here are 50 reasons you may be unhappy With Related Famous Motivational Quotes.
1. You worry.
“I am an old man and have known a great many troubles, but most of them have never happened.” – Mark Twain
2. You hold onto the perceived idea of control.
“As your faith is strengthened you will find that there is no
longer the need to have a sense of control, that things will flow as they will,
and that you will flow with them, to your great delight and benefit.” –
Emmanuel Teney
“Anger is an acid that can do more harm to the vessel in which
it is stored than to anything on which it is poured.” – Mark Twain
4. You believe everyone should play by your rules.
“If you expect the world to be fair with you because you are
fair, you’re fooling yourself. That’s like expecting the lion not to eat you
because you didn’t eat him.”
5. You compare yourself to others.
“Saying someone is ugly doesn’t make you any prettier.”
6. You chose to be happy only when all of your dreams come true.
“Happiness is not determined by what’s happening around you, but
rather what’s happening inside you. Most people depend on others to gain
happiness, but the truth is, it always comes from within.”
7. You are a glass-half-empty person.
“You become what you focus on and like the people you spend time
with.”
The most terrible poverty is loneliness, and the feeling of
being unloved.” ― Mother Teresa
9. You seek materialism over everything else in life.
“Many people are so poor because the only thing they have is
money.”
10. You don’t make time for the right things.
“When you stop chasing the wrong things you give the right
things a chance to catch you.”
11. You hang out with unhappy people.
“When you have to start compromising yourself and your morals
for the people around you, it’s probably time to change the people around you.”
12. You haven’t discovered your purpose.
“Trying to be someone else is a waste of the person you are.”
13. You are more of an actor than an author.
“To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you
something else is the greatest achievement.” – Ralph Waldo Emerson
14. You’re stuck in your past.
“You can’t start the next chapter of your life if you keep
re-reading your last one.”
15. You keep thinking about your future and can’t enjoy today.
“What you do today determines who you will be tomorrow.”
16. You’re unhealthy.
“The way you think, the way you behave, the way you eat, can
influence your life by 30 to 50 years.” – Deepak Chopra
17. You’re a perfectionist.
18. You’re afraid of failure.
19. You’re insecure.
“The task we must set for ourselves is not to feel secure, but to be able to tolerate insecurity.” Erich Fromm
20. You’re in debt.
21. You seek validation.
“Learn
to love yourself first, instead of loving the idea of other people loving you.”
22. You neglect personal relationships.
“Don’t
choose the one who is beautiful to the world; choose the one who makes your
world beautiful.”
23. You procrastinate.
“Know
the true value of time; snatch, seize, and enjoy every moment of it. No
idleness, no laziness, no procrastination: never put off till tomorrow what you
can do today.” – Lord Chesterfield
“Anyone
who stops learning is old, whether at twenty or eighty. Anyone who keeps
learning stays young. The greatest thing in life is to keep your mind young.” –
Henry Ford
25. You have unrealized dreams.
“All
our dreams can come true if we have the courage to pursue them.” – Walt Disney
26. You’re bored.
“The
life of the creative man is lead, directed, and controlled by boredom. Avoiding
boredom is one of our most important purposes.” – Susan Sontag
“Don’t
say you don’t have enough time. You have exactly the same number of hours per
day that were given to Helen Keller, Pasteur, Michaelangelo, Mother Teresa,
Leonardo da Vinci, Thomas Jefferson, Albert Einstein, etc…”
28. You don’t sleep enough.
“I
love sleep. My life has the tendency to fall apart when I’m awake, you know?” –
Ernest Hemingway
“Solitude
is the place of purification.” – Martin Buber
30. You don’t take the time to set goals.
“Setting
goals are the first step in turning the invisible into the visible.” – Tony
Robbins
31. You’re dependent.
“The
greatest gifts you can give your children are the roots of responsibility and
the wings of independence.” Denis Waitley
32. You don’t think you deserve happiness.
“We
all of us deserve happiness or none of us does.” – Mary Gordon
“Greed
is a bottomless pit which exhausts the person in an endless effort to satisfy
the need without ever reaching satisfaction.” – Erich Fromm
34. You ignore opportunities.
“Opportunity
is missed by most people because it is dressed in overalls and looks like
work.” – Thomas Jefferson
35. You’re complacent.
“Don’t
let your special character and values, the secret that you know and no one else
does, the truth – don’t let that get swallowed up by the great chewing
complacency.” – Aesop
36. You hate your job.
“Whatever
your life’s work is, do it well. A man should do his job so well that the
living, the dead, and the unborn could do it no better.” – Martin Luther King
Jr.
37. You chase the wrong things.
“When
you stop chasing the wrong things you give the right things a chance to catch
you.”
38. You have no spiritual life.
“In
the mental calmness of spiritual life, I have found that the answers to the
whys in our lives can come to you.” – Clarence Clemons
39. You have no real friends.
“Making
a hundred friends is not a miracle. The miracle is to make a single friend who
will stand by your side even when hundreds are against you.”
40. You’re afraid of yourself.
“I’m
sure not afraid of success and I’ve learned not to be afraid of failure. The
only thing I’m afraid of now is of being someone I don’t like much.” – Anna
Quindlen
“Too
many people buy things they don’t need, with money they don’t have, to impress
people they don’t know.”
42. You don’t relax.
“To
have faith is to trust yourself to the water. When you swim you don’t grab hold
of the water, because if you do you will sink and drown. Instead, you relax, and
float.” – Alan Watts
43. You don’t take risks.
“Only
those who will risk going too far can possibly find out how far one can go.”
T.S. Elliot
44. You’re impatient.
“Never
cut a tree down in the wintertime. Never make a negative decision in the low
time. Never make your most important decisions when you are in your worst
moods. Wait. Be patient. The storm will pass. The spring will come.” Robert
Schuller
“You
cannot change what you refuse to confront.”
46. You don’t have a dog.
“A dog is the only thing on earth that loves you more than you love yourself.” –
Josh Billings
47. You equate comfort with happiness.
“Western
culture has things a little backward right now. We think that if we had every
comfort available to us, we’d be happy. We equate comfort with happiness. And
now we’re so comfortable we’re miserable. There’s no struggle in our lives. No
sense of adventure. We get in a car, we get in an elevator, it all comes easy.
What I’ve found is that I’m never more alive than when I’m pushing and I’m in
pain, and I’m struggling for high achievement, and in that struggle, I think
there’s magic.” – Dean Karnazes
48. You don’t love yourself.
“If
you are happy, you can give happiness. If you don’t love yourself and if you
are unhappy with yourself, you can’t give anything else but that.” Gisele
Bundchen
49. You play the victim card.
“It’s
hard to be happy when the world is conspiring against you. People who take on
the role of a victim, are never happy. This is because they don’t have any
control. They believe that their unhappiness has been caused by an external
factor and it can only be taken away by the external factor. They live in the
miserable land of ‘if only.'”
50. You don’t allow yourself to be happy.
“You
know why it’s hard to be happy? It’s because we refuse to let go of the things
that make us sad.”
Thanks For The Reading These are The 50 Reason You May Unhappy. Try To Overcome These And Be Happy 😊
may be these could be the reasons but i found Nice Quotes collection lol :P
ReplyDelete